Today, we will discuss a strategy for overcoming a manifestation pitfall. Often, we are in situations that build up tension, and we feel that the subsequent escalation will be the breaking point. It is easy to ask, “What did I do to deserve it?” I have done it myself many times before. This is precisely where the pitfall happens. We have just asked a lofty question.
You might ask, what is a lofty question? It is an affirmation in the form of an open-ended question that leaves room for the universe to work it out and respond. I have learned about it from Vishen Lakhiani and Cristie Marie Sheldon. Of course, we know that the universe mirrors our identity and finds justifications for our frustrations. Hence, negatively framed lofty questions will manifest more of the same.
For example, one common negative lofty question might be, “Why do bad things keep happening to me?” The universe reflects our thoughts back to us as if we are looking through a mirror. Negative thought patterns reinforce and manifest more negativity.
It’s important to recognize when you’re falling into this trap and take steps to get out of it. The true power of lofty questions lies in your ability to reframe them positively. Even when all the questions that come to your mind are in a negative form, you have the power to reframe them on the spot. For example asking a question similar to ‘Why am I always falling short in everything?’ can be reframed into ‘Why am I always exceeding expectations?’ This shift not only interrupts the negative pattern but also empowers your subconscious to brainstorm actions needed to exceed expectations, as in the example.
By taking advantage of the times when we connect the most with the subconscious—the last thing before we go to sleep and the first thing when we wake up, we maximize the impact of your positive lofty questions. These are the moments when we are most receptive to suggestions, and positive, lofty questions can stick the most. Mindfulness practice or hypnosis sessions are a good way to reprogram the subconscious.
Trusting in the universe means not having to keep asking. And lofty questions are even more powerful if they include action steps. When we ask ‘What small step can I take today to manifest success?’ we are building bridges to the subconscious mind with real-world actions. While it may seem simple, the connection between the subconscious and real life is profound. It is a potent and contagious tool—others are motivated to do the same when they see your results, giving you a sense of reassurance and confidence in the process.
Let’s move this forward with others around us. By trying these suggestions first, we can inspire others to follow our example and give reframing a try with questions that are applicable to their life situations. As we see positive changes in our lives, this becomes an inspiration to others and gives them hope that soon they will see similar results. This ripple effect is not just powerful, it’s contagious and endless. Let’s keep it moving and keep inspiring each other.
